Showing posts with label writing. Show all posts
Showing posts with label writing. Show all posts

4/08/2019

Writing Effectively With ADHD


Writing Effectively When You Have ADHD


Dealing with ADHD in all its forms can be a challenge, but when you’re a creative type, it can present its own set of unique and special problems.

And if you keep reading past the effective writing ideas, I’ll share some of my favorite helpful sites, as well as ones which give me inspiration for (mostly) creative writing.
According to ADDitude Mag, as of 2013, an estimated 11% of school age children are diagnosed with ADHD.

As an adult with ADHD who is extremely fond of writing, I’ve found some effective, and some not-so-effective, ways to cope with the unique way that my brain works. Here are a few of the things that work the best for me.

1. Whenever I have a daunting task, be it a big project, a story I want to work on, an article I want to begin, or whatever, I begin by taking a deliberate break. No, I don’t mean mindlessly checking my Facebook and liking things. Or dusting something that’s collected a layer of dust. I mean doing absolutely nothing. Deliberately. Yes, I mean sit still and wait. Just like you’re at the DMV or the post office, only sitting preferably. Set an alarm if you have to. Watch the clock, but don’t do anything. close all your screens and apps on your computer, put your phone or tablet down. The only thing that I allow myself to do during these deliberate breaks is sip water and vape. I do nothing else. Sounds simple doesn’t it? If it helps, think of it as a sort of Zen exercise. The art of doing nothing. But this is an effective way to get started, give my brain the needed break it needs, and get ready for the upcoming task. Let’s say I look at the clock and it’s 9:50 pm, I am determined to write for 2 hours. I give myself 10 minutes. Saying that I must start at 10 pm, no later. The first time you do this it may be difficult because you feel like you’re wasting time just sitting there doing nothing. But imagine all the ways and times you do nothing, or very little, and are unaware of it.

 2. Start when you say you will: No matter what. If the phone rings, ignore it. If the cat jumps up on your desk, put her down, and keep going. Let no distraction daunt you from the task at hand.
3.
     
 Play music. I find that music evokes feelings and emotions and allows my mind to reflect, ruminate, and wander. This is a good effect because it can often stir the creative juices that I need to get myself geared up and ready to work. Although I have those intense moments when I have to pause whatever I’m playing because I’m trying to get phrasing just right or trying to remember something pivotal to my article, story, or plot.

4.Make Lists: Write down lists of ideas, topics, article titles, headlines, business and marketing, etc. I personally use Microsoft OneNote to keep track of (most) of my writing ideas, it’s helpful because I am able to sync it across all my devices (computer, tablet, & phone). Personally I’ve been using a planner since high school, which is, what is fast becoming, a long time ago.

5.Carry some paper with you. Don’t just rely on tech. As a writer, technology isn’t always the most reliable thing, sometimes the phone is slow, or maybe the battery died because you forgot to charge the phone. There’s no replacement for paper and a pen or pencil. You don’t have to recharge a notepad or wait for it to boot up. Sometimes I find that waiting for OneNote to load on my tablet takes so long that I’ve forgotten what I wanted to write down by the time it’s up, running, and ready. I have lost a few ideas that way. Hopefully they’ll come back to me someday...

This could be #6 but it doesn’t really pertain to writing, but more about your taxes and finances. Having any sort of attention problem or executive function disorder means being disorganized, a large amount of the time, so using a free scanner app or scanning receipts and important documents into your computer and saving them in their own folder could be pretty helpful, just in case tax season comes around and you lost something. If you want to know more about how to file taxes as a freelancer, check out Careful Cents and sign up for her free tax course. It’s simple, easy to understand, and inspirational. It takes the fear out of doing taxes.

So if you have, or think you may have ADHD, don’t be discouraged about striving to achieve your dreams. There are plenty of success stories of women who’ve overcome great odds and achieved their goals and ambitions. There are a few famous men who’ve certainly achieved success, wealth, and abundance despite certain limitations.

Also apparently average people can get a taste of what it’s like to have ADD. According to Wired “jumping between digital documents impedes understanding”. Well, I hate to be the one to say this, OK maybe a part of me doesn’t, but welcome to my world. Now regular people can, and apparently do, get a taste of what it’s like to be unfocused all the time to varying degrees.
Tell me what your techniques are for dealing with things when you’re stressed or when life is simply too much? I’d also love to hear from other creative ADDers. Can’t wait to read your comments!

Layla Rose
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4/05/2019

The 5 Ways Marketing is Like Fishing


1.     Bait the hook – you wouldn’t bait a fish hook with this...    
      Fish don’t like potatoes. You have to figure out what bait to use before you can expect to even try to catch anything. Or to put it simply learn what your audience wants and figure out how to deliver it. In a way that is unique to you. That would be your unique selling point.



      2. Cast the line – This is how you get out there, get noticed, get seen. You cast a line so that people know you’re there. This is probably the most time-consuming step. You have to market yourself. This often takes more time than the creation of your content.
      3. Wait for bites – Sometimes it’s just a matter of time, sometimes you get bites right away, sometimes you have to be a bit patient.

      4. Check the line – If you’re not getting enough bites, or not getting any bites, then you check the line and make sure it’s solid, secure, and cast again. That means looking at similar sites or blogs that are talking about the same subjects. See what they do, if you’re stumped, ask for advice. Find a forum that has what you want. Search and learn.

      5.   Reel them in – When they start biting, you reel them in, set up your freebies to give away, get your email list going, put all your juicy tidbits together so that the fish will bite and keep biting every time you cast off. Be personal and human in your contact with potential clients or customers. They want to feel that they’re talking to a real human, not a machine.

Then you’ll have a complete and beautiful bounty every time. And you know by bounty I mean money.
Remember that determination, being good at what you do, and learning from your mistakes will get you farther than not trying anything. Don’t be afraid to fail forward, engage, and keep learning on this journey called life.

I enjoy making proclamations, so here’s one: What I value: learning, acceptance, compassion & empathy, eco-conscious living, healthy holistic lifestyles, good food, and healthy decadent recipes. There are many more that I could add to this, but this is enough for now. I just wanted to end on a positive note, because I heard Henry Winkler speak at a Yale University commencement and he said:

“Never put a period on a negative thought.”

I hope you enjoyed the post. And I hope that you’ve gained something from my writing: entertainment, amusement, or information. Please check back soon and subscribe to my blog until I have email subscriptions up and running.
Take care!
Layla Rose: The Goth Writer